tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7581838717860132764.post2270965515100593288..comments2015-06-30T20:37:02.055-07:00Comments on boys x 3: On Thinking You Know...When You Really Don't3boysmommyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12105877184853507758noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7581838717860132764.post-89963115526380339902011-08-17T11:04:08.639-07:002011-08-17T11:04:08.639-07:00Jessie can you send me a link to the blog you had ...Jessie can you send me a link to the blog you had posted, too? Looking forward to reconnecting! Kelly, SO well said. Yes, everything. Spot on. I am glad to see this person has more or less gone away for now but I regret all the irritation and heartache she has caused not just me, but others as well. Sickening.3boysmommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12105877184853507758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7581838717860132764.post-12239166724512789332011-08-15T11:54:32.829-07:002011-08-15T11:54:32.829-07:00Just curious if this person is the same person tha...Just curious if this person is the same person that prompted me to do my blog post about cyber bullying. If it is she is a complete and utter nut job, I admire you for this classy well written post Deb.Jessie Gerouxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16601153073516696160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7581838717860132764.post-89769119239122136172011-08-15T05:29:36.284-07:002011-08-15T05:29:36.284-07:00Deb, I have another online friend--who now is a go...Deb, I have another online friend--who now is a good friend in real life--who has been accused of MBP as well. Unfortunately, her situation has turned UGLY, to where the accuser will stop at nothing to destroy her, all while my friend has stayed decent. <br /><br />People like that cannot be reasoned with. MBP is a serious charge and should be considered defamation. Just because our kids are hard to diagnose (Michaela doesn't even technically fit her main dx, or any of her other ones!), doesn't mean we're making them up! Anyone who judges based on online postings is superficial and a simpleton. They cannot understand the depth in life, nor can they understand the complexities of the body. <br /><br />So, my advice: get as far away from this person as possible before they start getting on a crusade about you and try to "save" your child. I'm serious. And then: keep on doing what you're doing....the truth always wins!Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00672853334159695888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7581838717860132764.post-75292963853823570052011-08-14T21:40:27.110-07:002011-08-14T21:40:27.110-07:00Debbie, I am an old friend of Bryan's. I real...Debbie, I am an old friend of Bryan's. I really can't say I know you, but after reading your blogs and from what I know of Bryan, your children are very blessed to have you both as parents. Your dedication and love for your children is very obvious. It's so sad that there are people like that out there who would say otherwise and hurt you like that, but great job of taking her negativity and making it into something positive with your blog. It was written very well. <br /><br />Robin Knappmymeowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03300032669623112500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7581838717860132764.post-24040039271723067452011-08-14T20:39:01.514-07:002011-08-14T20:39:01.514-07:00Melinda... sorry I didn't spell your name corr...Melinda... sorry I didn't spell your name correctly earlier! Terra... thank you so much! I agree, maybe pity is a good thing for HER now. What else can we do. Thanks for chiming in. Appreciated for sure!3boysmommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12105877184853507758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7581838717860132764.post-11495124120073382862011-08-14T16:46:51.761-07:002011-08-14T16:46:51.761-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7581838717860132764.post-20564717515296024772011-08-14T16:46:12.266-07:002011-08-14T16:46:12.266-07:00Very well written, Deb. Thank you for sharing this...Very well written, Deb. Thank you for sharing this, and also your journey with your boys.<br /><br />I agree, that love is the better answer here. I feel nothing but pity for her now. But like my dad used to tell me while I was struggling as a Life Coach, "You can't fix 'em all. I'm just glad you're gonna try."<br /><br />Much love to you, my dear. Keep on keepin' on! If you need anything, I'm always around :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7581838717860132764.post-46589788631800933252011-08-14T15:45:13.454-07:002011-08-14T15:45:13.454-07:00Thank you very much! I appreciate when people rea...Thank you very much! I appreciate when people read what I write, and especially when they take time to comment (this goes for previous Blogger comments I never replied directly to in my other posts, too- sorry for that). It really does mean a lot to me and I love the opportunity to share things. I think my next topic needs to be something lighter, but this one was close to the heart. It is amazing the different paths life takes and how it changes your capacity for love, like Malinda stated. Well said... all of you. :)3boysmommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12105877184853507758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7581838717860132764.post-65766120429971896412011-08-14T15:14:55.288-07:002011-08-14T15:14:55.288-07:00Hi Debbie,
My name is Melinda and went high schoo...Hi Debbie,<br /><br />My name is Melinda and went high school with Bryan. I read your blog after he posted it on his FB page. I really appreciate your approach of love and explanation to this person, rather than hate. Hate and anger is such an easy reaction and takes far more energy! It is very easy for someone who doesn't know your world or your child's life to judge. Our oldest child has Autism and was dx when he was 3, he'll be 10 next month. Throughout our journey with Connor, I have come to realize my capacity for love and compassion. It is far deeper than I thought possible. Having a child with any type of challenge rocks your world, but sometimes it lets in the most beautiful light and miracles! <br /><br />Good luck to you and your family!<br /><br />MelindaMelindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13967185747563110727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7581838717860132764.post-51903273985694997062011-08-14T12:19:26.314-07:002011-08-14T12:19:26.314-07:00Tell your "friend", as my dad used to sa...Tell your "friend", as my dad used to say, "Walk in another person's moccasins instead of stepping on her (his) toes".Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13168645717243249639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7581838717860132764.post-23431717072203456482011-08-14T12:01:48.333-07:002011-08-14T12:01:48.333-07:00Thanks Chris!
Deb-it is perfectly stated! xoxoxThanks Chris!<br />Deb-it is perfectly stated! xoxoxJoshua Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12972469634536966085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7581838717860132764.post-71757052203659783672011-08-14T10:50:55.383-07:002011-08-14T10:50:55.383-07:00Very glad you don't let that disgusting excuse...Very glad you don't let that disgusting excuse for a human being change the way you go thru your day. She is negative to her core, likely a raging alcoholic and the type who just really needs to go away and leave people alone. By now you know where you stand with us Debbie. We all love you and Bryan and the kids!Chris Byrdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08478435450440326893noreply@blogger.com